Where do you come from?

negin March 11th, 2008

The question “Where do you come from?” might seem like an easy and straightforward one, a simple question looking for a simple answer. Being of Persian origin, but born and raised in Sweden — a country in which I look foreign — I’m faced with this question quite often. And it always manages to create a degree of hesitation within me. Looking at the world today, I’m sure that I’m not alone.

The question could be interpreted literally and answered accordingly, which in my case would be Sweden, as that is where I was born. This usually doesn’t satisfy the questioner though.

michellalee_wideweb__430x288.jpgOr I could “play along” and, in my case, say Iran but that isn’t totally the truth either, as I haven’t ever even been there.

What complicates the matter are the indirect implications of my answer. It’s usually not a matter of where I literally came from, but more a question of ethnic origins, and/or perhaps even cultural identity. What people are more interested in is knowing what I identify myself as, which is understandable. The problem occurs when people put me in a “file” depending on what I answer.

Regardless of the benefits or drawbacks of the present-day global economy, this way of thinking is out-of-date, and I know more and more (young?) people are liberating themselves from it. The days when most people strictly belonged to one nationality and one culture are history.

With people moving across borders and continents more and more, generations are arising where one has had the benefit of experiencing so many different cultures that it is impossible to identify with just one of them. Being a mix of several cultures — hopefully taking the best of each — and realizing that people across the world have more in common than the opposite, will make people see themselves less as belonging to a certain nationality, and more as world citizens.

This concept has been beautifully expressed in the Baha’i-writings, revealed almost 150 years ago:

That one indeed is a man who, today, dedicateth himself to the service of the entire human race. The Great Being saith: Blessed and happy is he that ariseth to promote the best interests of the peoples and kindreds of the earth. In another passage He hath proclaimed: It is not for him to pride himself who loveth his own country, but rather for him who loveth the whole world. The earth is but one country, and mankind its citizens.

(Baha’u'llah, Tablets of Baha’u'llah, p. 167)

I’m not so bothered by people asking me where I come from as it may seem. I just hope that I’m not sorted into a file of a “typical Persian” (whatever that is), but rather a person whose identity has been formed by the experiences I’ve been through, may it be Persian, Swedish or simply… a world citizen.

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5 Responses to “Where do you come from?”

  1. U on 25 Mar 2008 at 12:41 am

    Danish parents,
    born in Sweden,
    childhood in Denmark,
    teenage years and adult life in Canada,
    spouse from El Salvador.
    Who am I?
    My skin does not evoke the question,
    my accent does - slight Danish + Spanish accent in my English.
    If anyone asks, they get the full story :-)

    I also consider myself a world citizen.

  2. Angela on 13 Apr 2008 at 8:49 pm

    That is a great quote and very similar to what I had just been reading about in the faith of Daoism. Very wise words.

  3. negin on 13 Apr 2008 at 11:37 pm

    Yes, the idea of love and service to mankind recurs in all religions and faiths as a main theme, I guess the difference is only in how to apply it to different ages and/or cultures. It’s exciting that we now live in a time when we can apply this idea on a global level and see peace and world unity as something that is feasible and necessary.

  4. Monochromatic_Knight on 16 Apr 2008 at 9:06 pm

    Being raised in two different countries is a double-edged sword. I spent a significant portion of my life dwelling upon whether I’m from countray A or country C. Unbeknownst to most people who pose the question, “where are you from” can be a real challenge to answer. It raises issues of patriotism or the lack there of, issues of culture, of development and identity. However, the benefits of such an upbringing are bountiful, such as insights into diversity, worldwide current events, cultural sensitivity, and a feeling of global citizenship. This is my reconciliation, an understanding that for an ever increasing population, identity bound to the notion of an ethereal nation-state and its cultural appropriations has essentially become outmoded.

  5. negin on 24 Apr 2008 at 8:14 pm

    Thank you for your comment Monochromatic_Knight, I particularly enjoyed reading your description of the benefits of having a culturally diverse background.

    Surely the shift towards a more globalized world is an unstoppable process, which is, if anything, accelerating and enhancing our identity as global citizens. However, as any development, it also gives rise to “new” challenges and issues in the world, on an individual as well as a global level (economical, political, environmental etc.) Exploring some of these challenges from a Baha’i perspective is the aim of this blog. I would recommend you to read the articles on disarmament (http://www.bahaiperspectives.com/index.php/tag/disarmament/) in particular, and please do share more of your thoughts.

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